Shaunis Mercer

Director of Estate Planning and Relationships Agreements

Shaunis Mercer brings 18 years of legal experience and compassion to her role. Through clear communication and education, she empowers families to navigate transitions.

In the upcoming webinar "Thriving Together," Shaunis will share insights on managing financial and emotional aspects in marriage, making complex matters accessible. Shaunis's expertise extends to coaching legal teams, ensuring tailored support for each family.

With a B.S. in Business Management and a J.D. from the University of North Carolina School of Law, Shaunis blends business with legal proficiency to guide families effectively. Beyond her role, she serves as PTA Vice President and leads a local parenting group, fostering supportive communities. In the webinar replay, Shaunis delivers invaluable insights into achieving harmony within marriage, emphasizing education and compassionate guidance for families.

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